Divorce and Mediation in Clinton
Divorce mediation is an alternative divorce process designed to achieve amicable agreements between divorcing spouses in a controlled, structured, conflict-free manner and environment. Mediation allows spouses to control the process, resolve disputes, and make decisions regarding children. It provides privacy and confidentiality and requires much less time and expense than traditional courtroom divorce proceedings.
How Long Does Mediation Take?
The length of mediation depends on your ability to agree with one another and the number of issues to be addressed, but it is typically concluded within two to three months. Factors that can impact the length of mediation include but are not limited to:
- Children’s needs, custody, visitation schedules, and co-parenting plans;
- Alimony and child support;
- Educational responsibilities (private school, college);
- Life insurance;
- Co-owned real estate, businesses, or business interests;
- Asset division;
- Mortgage;
- Retirement and pension accounts;
- Health insurance.
Spouses who fail to reach agreements must then proceed to court.
How Should I Prepare for My First Mediation Session?
Advance preparation is essential for mediation to be productive and successful and save time and conflict. Before your initial meeting, you should take the following steps to prepare:
- Be selective when choosing the mediator. Mediators have different styles, so research and choose the one you feel most comfortable working with to ensure a smooth process and productive sessions are crucial. Interview qualified mediators and select those with extensive experience to create a stress-free environment.
- Gather and organize all necessary information. Compile essential documents and information you and the mediator will need during discussions, including a complete list of assets and financial records, such as mortgages, bank accounts, vehicles, credit card statements, investment property, retirement funds, and others.
- Determine what you want to accomplish. Decide what goals you hope to accomplish through mediation and be included in the final settlement agreement. Decide which items are important and which you are willing to compromise on.
- Be cooperative and willing to compromise. Divorce mediation is designed to be an amicable, conflict-free alternative to contentious litigation. You agreed to the process, which also requires being respectful, cooperative, and willing to be productive in order for it to work effectively and successfully.
Do I Need a Lawyer During Divorce Mediation?
Whether or not to have your lawyer present is a personal decision, but you are entitled to private discussions with your lawyer during the process, if not in the session. If present during mediation, your lawyer can:
- Equalize the balance of power if one spouse intimidates the other or has more knowledge of finances, assets, and other marital holdings;
- Clarify legal requirements or ramifications;
- Decrease the length of the mediation process by being present for questions;
- Provide objective legal advice;
- Ensure your legal rights are protected.
At Tune Law Group, LLC, our Clinton divorce mediation lawyers are compassionate advocates who understand the challenges you face when divorcing. We provide personalized attention, guidance and support, and tailored strategies, never losing sight of your legal rights and best interests.
The Clinton Divorce Mediation Lawyers at Tune Law Group, LLC Help Empower Clients Through ADR
Mediation allows you to take control of your divorce. If you have questions, our experienced Clinton divorce mediation lawyers at Tune Law Group, LLC have answers. Call today at 908-434-1061 or contact us online to schedule a free consultation. Located in Whitehouse Station, New Jersey, we serve clients in and around Hunterdon County, Monmouth County, Whitehouse, and Tewksbury.
